Unconditional Love

My First birthday

My First birthday

After her Coma

After her Coma

Mom & Me

Mom & Me

Already a Star

Already a Star

There she is Celebrating me once again. You see I was all my parents ever wanted.  After being married for 24 years of trying to start a family; I finally happened for them. I was their only child.

They weren’t just my parents they were both my best-friends. I can recall the hours of playing games with them it was always so much fun. It wasn’t until years later that I realized how old they really were. The fact that they both worked long hours in a factory never occurred to me. Of course they must have been beat tired but their smile and all the energy they provided me with never let me see that.

Here we are 43 years later and I am the loving parent and proud mother of four amazing individuals. I am also my mother’s guardian. We lost dad fifteen years ago and not a day goes by we don’t miss him or bring him up in our daily conversation.

Mom has been in a nursing home for almost five years. She suffered a brain stroke that left her in a coma for a few weeks and once she came out of it she has never been the same. She has no memory and cannot even eat on her own she has a feeding tube. Due to lack of mobility her body has become contorted and she cannot walk. It has been the hardest journey this family has ever faced. These last five years has taken a toll on her aching and old bones. My beautiful Queen is slowing losing the battle of living.

She will always be my biggest Fan and supporter even before I became ‘Olga Plus Model’ she saw my shine. Today I celebrate her for never giving up on HER dream of becoming a parent. She raised me with love, spoiled me rotten but always insisted I knew the meaning of being humble and hard-working.

Her illness is coming to an end and she is now in Hospice; sadly to admit her hours are being counted. This is a very hard week for me but I know this nightmare is far from over.  It also in my career a huge week with new clients, press releases and photo shoots. I was in my room devastated looking at old family albums getting on a good cry in peace. The kids would be home soon and I did not want them to see me this way.

I was even thinking maybe I cannot take on these new projects, perhaps not the right time. Then I felt her love her presence with me. She would never allow me to admit defeat or even show weakness. This was not how she raised me. So I went for it and got it! The next few days and weeks will be painful and devastating but I have a legacy to continue. Everything I do reflects on my parents so the show must go on and it better be one heck of a show.

Thank you for all your prayers keep them coming they are very needed and so healing.

Curvaciously Yours

Olga

Hate within your own Plus Circle..

Size 26

Size 26

Size 14/16

Size 14/16

Being the Sexy beast that I am

Being the Sexy beast that I am

Something most be in the air.   Could it be the freezing temperatures??   Bringing out the nasty and cold in others.  Maybe!  I am expressing my own two cents on this topic because lately my inbox has been filled with this trend.

First this industry is BIG enough for everyone and with the positive plus size flow from the last ten years it is safe to admit we are here to stay. Fashion and Beauty is about diversity, evolution and change. We all are unique and although we are all plus size models or entertainers we carry our own label.

There is no one quite like you or like me. I never went into this career concerning myself with the beauty or fame of this model or that one. At the end of the day I can only work with my beauty and my talents.

Yes it would be beautiful if everyone would love me, accept me and support me. That isn’t always the case. So here is the answer to all of my curvy modeling pals that are going through this right now:

You are modeling because you want to you made this choice. Most of us that are serious about this career have invested time we don’t have and money to help us grow in this industry. We have been laughed at set aside due to our size and reminded that we just don’t cut it in the fashion world.

But come on now our beauty is there for the world to see ; not accept. We aren’t looking for acceptance anymore that was over 30 years ago. The clients catering to the plus size woman are growing and knocking the doors of ‘Fashion’ wide open for us to walk right in as we flaunt our curves.

Concern yourself with knowledge, be your own cheerleader and flow with the punches. If someone is hating on you when you have done nothing to them it is them who has an issue. Let them deal with that or not. You my lovely plus size sister have goals to achieve, clients to land and are building your signature in the plus size community.

Smile often, carry that notepad around to write down ideas and future projects. And the next time someone hurts you or talks about your work get working on your next shoot. Motivation is a beautiful thing.

As for my haters: You hated on me when I was 350 pounds…you still hating 12 years later at 190. Look at my pictures do I look like I care..? I will continue to shine because its in me to be this way the ugly in you will not affect me.

Stress kills.. Life is too short to waste great energy on negativity. Continue to build your brand as I build mine. Watch me..

Curvaciously Yours,

Olga Gonzalez-Ramos

No easy way out for me…

February 2015 by Wil White

It has been a year & two months since my last blog.  A very rewarding new career change , a beautiful grand daughter & a total weight loss of over 125 pounds will lead to no time for my blogging. Not putting excuses just sharing for all the caring & loyal FANS of Curvaciously Yours. […]

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R.N.S. Latin Urban music DUO bigger than ever..

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Many of you know me and my love for Latin music especially Urban music. It comes to know surprise to see me working closely with Reggaeton sensation R.N.S. I have worked with the best of them from ‘ Don Omar’ to la Banda Gorda , Tyrese and now back to my reggaeton with R.N.S. In […]

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Curvaciously Yours..Philanthropic invite to join Non-profit organization Working Wardrobes..

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